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Monday, August 22, 2011

10 IMPORTANT RULES OF FRIENDSHIP

1) No matter how close you are, don't be in the same project team, especially when you have more than 1 best friend
2) It's normal for best friends to quarrel and fight but it's not normal for best friends to become enemies for stupid reason
3) Friendship means support each other and watch your back not be a backstabber
4) Friends must have give and take; give advise and receive advise
5) Great friends listen to the problems and help understand the problem
6) Friends willing to explain what the other doesn't understand not condemn them, saying that they don't know anything
7) When a friend become a leader of a group, respect must be in both ways, the leader and the follower
8) Don't combine friendship with responsibilities, u can't do anything perfect
9) Great friends know you inside out, not outside in
10) Don't give all your secrets to your friends, save some for yourself

STEPS TO AMEND YOUR FRIENDSHIP

1) Cool urself down. Nothing will solved when both sides on fire. 
2) Think what went wrong. Humans make mistakes but it's how we correct the mistakes we made
3) Apologize. It's hard to say sorry but I can help make up. Saying who is at fault is not important, It's how you solve it
4) Shakes hand and hugs. That shows how both of u care for each other
5) Hold hands and say 'Let's be friends again'

"FRIENDSHIP CAN BE POWERFUL ALLIES WHEN YOU'RE WILLING TO CARE AND UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER" - Galaxy Convoy/Optimus Prime

BEST FRIENDS

Who is your best friend that knows you inside out? Friendship is a form of interpersonal relationship generally considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations.  I am sure in any religious, friendship is important to all the believers.   In Al Quran there is a quote from Al Imran sentence 17 “The men and women from among the believers are friends of each other. They call the people towards goodness and piety and abstain from evil and transgression. They uphold the prayer, pay the poor-rate (zakaat) and obey Allah and His Prophet (s.a.w.s.). Indeed, these are the ones for whom Allah shall soon manifest His mercy and grace. Verily Allah is all-powerful, and the most wise.”  Best friend, someone (singular) with whom one shares the strongest possible kind of friendship, often abbreviated to "bestie".  Best friends or close friends is a person with whom someone shares extremely strong interpersonal ties with as a friend. This kind of friendship, especially your real friends will know you inside out and can trace your current feeling without you need to tell. Best friends also understand other best friend and let him/herself be understand by other best friend. 

The Quotes about Friendship;
True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it is lost." - Charles Caleb Colton



"Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."
- Anon


"A true friend is someone who knows there's something wrong even when you have the biggest smile on your face."

"Together forever, never apart.  Maybe in distance, but never in heart.”

And some other quotes that I'm sure u can find it by searching 'Best Friends' in Googles or check this site 'http://www.indianchild.com/my_friend.htm

Best Friends are very special people in your life. They are the first people you think about when you make plans. They are the first people you go to when you need someone to talk to. You will phone them up just to talk about nothing, or the most important things in your life. When you’re sad they will try their hardest to cheer you up. They give the best hugs in the world! They are the shoulder to cry on, because you know that they truly care about you. In most cases they would take a bullet for you, coz it would be too painful to watch you get hurt. 

Many people, not all, go through different best friends throughout life. However, usually a person only has one real, true best friend in all that time. A best friend is not only someone you have a good time with, it is also someone you believe you can trust your life with. A best friend is the first person you call when the most amazing things happen in your life, and when the most horrific incidents happen. A best friend is the person you will always remember no matter what comes about. Some people lose the only true best friend they will ever have, and even when they get new "best friends" .. that old, real best friend is always on their mind. A best friend is almost like real family, a best friend gives the opinion you usually care most about. A best friend is the one who tells you the things you absolutely need to hear regardless of whether you want to hear it or not. A best friend is the person you usually can be around always and never get sick of. A best friend is someone you don't envy, and is the person you are grateful to have as a friend. A best friend is the one who will forgive you always, even when you've screwed up so bad. And a best friend is the one who even though you may have drifted apart from, when the time comes for them to hug you or congratulate you on an accomplishment or to console you on a loss.. they are the number one person you want to see, always because they are the person you've confided the most in and they are the person who knows you the best

Someone you can totally be yourself around and not give a care in the world about your actions or feelings because they won't judge you for the stupid things you may do or say. the ppl in your life who will walk a million miles to see you, the ones that you cry because you miss them. although they are the ppl who bring you a lot of pain they bring you the most joy. chances are one day you will love them more then a friend but that feeling may not stay.

A person(s) that you can trust and are very close with. A person who you know very well, and not just them but their family as well, most likely someone you grew up with.People you care about regardless of what stupid shit they do. People that are honest and TRUE. People you are so close with you have "inside" secrets with or code words. People that you can just look at a certain way and they KNOW EXACTLY what your talking about.

Well, no matter how many definition about best friends, the most important about it is they know u inside out

Girl best friends (like Dina Amani Raja Ain): They do all the girly things together, no one says anything. Exactly like DARA. That's why I enjoy having friends like DARA. U girls remind me of my best friends in 1994 like u, we were close. Doing things together, having fun, helping each other. Believe me, if I can turn back the time, I want to be at that time, where my best friends were together. We seperate after UPSR and lost contact ever since. So girls, like I said, if u understand the reason u formed DARA, u can handle every problem that been thrown at u and I secretly hope that u do because I don't want u to make the same mistake that we did

Remember girls; 
"It takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it." ~Source Unknown~