10 IMPORTANT RULES OF FRIENDSHIP

1) No matter how close you are, don't be in the same project team, especially when you have more than 1 best friend

2) It's normal for best friends to quarrel and fight but it's not normal for best friends to become enemies for stupid reason

3) Friendship means support each other and watch your back not be a backstabber

4) Friends must have give and take; give advise and receive advise

5) Great friends listen to the problems and help understand the problem

6) Friends willing to explain what the other doesn't understand not condemn them, saying that they don't know anything

7) When a friend become a leader of a group, respect must be in both ways, the leader and the follower

8) Don't combine friendship with responsibilities, u can't do anything perfect

9) Great friends know you inside out, not outside in

10) Don't give all your secrets to your friends, save some for yourself

STEPS TO AMEND YOUR FRIENDSHIP

1) Cool urself down. Nothing will solved when both sides on fire. 

2) Think what went wrong. Humans make mistakes but it's how we correct the mistakes we made

3) Apologize. It's hard to say sorry but I can help make up. Saying who is at fault is not important, It's how you solve it

4) Shakes hand and hugs. That shows how both of u care for each other

5) Hold hands and say 'Let's be friends again'

"FRIENDSHIP CAN BE POWERFUL ALLIES WHEN YOU'RE WILLING TO CARE AND UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER" - Galaxy Convoy/Optimus Prime

BEST FRIENDS

Who is your best friend that knows you inside out? Friendship is a form of interpersonal relationship generally considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations.  I am sure in any religious, friendship is important to all the believers.   In Al Quran there is a quote from Al Imran sentence 17 “The men and women from among the believers are friends of each other. They call the people towards goodness and piety and abstain from evil and transgression. They uphold the prayer, pay the poor-rate (zakaat) and obey Allah and His Prophet (s.a.w.s.). Indeed, these are the ones for whom Allah shall soon manifest His mercy and grace. Verily Allah is all-powerful, and the most wise.”  Best friend, someone (singular) with whom one shares the strongest possible kind of friendship, often abbreviated to "bestie".  Best friends or close friends is a person with whom someone shares extremely strong interpersonal ties with as a friend. This kind of friendship, especially your real friends will know you inside out and can trace your current feeling without you need to tell. Best friends also understand other best friend and let him/herself be understand by other best friend. 

The Quotes about Friendship;

True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it is lost." - Charles Caleb Colton

"Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."

- Anon

"A true friend is someone who knows there's something wrong even when you have the biggest smile on your face."

"Together forever, never apart.  Maybe in distance, but never in heart.”

And some other quotes that I'm sure u can find it by searching 'Best Friends' in Googles or check this site 'http://www.indianchild.com/my_friend.htm' 

Best Friends are very special people in your life. They are the first people you think about when you make plans. They are the first people you go to when you need someone to talk to. You will phone them up just to talk about nothing, or the most important things in your life. When you’re sad they will try their hardest to cheer you up. They give the best hugs in the world! They are the shoulder to cry on, because you know that they truly care about you. In most cases they would take a bullet for you, coz it would be too painful to watch you get hurt. 

Many people, not all, go through different best friends throughout life. However, usually a person only has one real, true best friend in all that time. A best friend is not only someone you have a good time with, it is also someone you believe you can trust your life with. A best friend is the first person you call when the most amazing things happen in your life, and when the most horrific incidents happen. A best friend is the person you will always remember no matter what comes about. Some people lose the only true best friend they will ever have, and even when they get new "best friends" .. that old, real best friend is always on their mind. A best friend is almost like real family, a best friend gives the opinion you usually care most about. A best friend is the one who tells you the things you absolutely need to hear regardless of whether you want to hear it or not. A best friend is the person you usually can be around always and never get sick of. A best friend is someone you don't envy, and is the person you are grateful to have as a friend. A best friend is the one who will forgive you always, even when you've screwed up so bad. And a best friend is the one who even though you may have drifted apart from, when the time comes for them to hug you or congratulate you on an accomplishment or to console you on a loss.. they are the number one person you want to see, always because they are the person you've confided the most in and they are the person who knows you the best

Someone you can totally be yourself around and not give a care in the world about your actions or feelings because they won't judge you for the stupid things you may do or say. the ppl in your life who will walk a million miles to see you, the ones that you cry because you miss them. although they are the ppl who bring you a lot of pain they bring you the most joy. chances are one day you will love them more then a friend but that feeling may not stay.

A person(s) that you can trust and are very close with. A person who you know very well, and not just them but their family as well, most likely someone you grew up with.People you care about regardless of what stupid shit they do. People that are honest and TRUE. People you are so close with you have "inside" secrets with or code words. People that you can just look at a certain way and they KNOW EXACTLY what your talking about.

Well, no matter how many definition about best friends, the most important about it is they know u inside out

Girl best friends (like Dina Amani Raja Ain): They do all the girly things together, no one says anything. Exactly like DARA. That's why I enjoy having friends like DARA. U girls remind me of my best friends in 1994 like u, we were close. Doing things together, having fun, helping each other. Believe me, if I can turn back the time, I want to be at that time, where my best friends were together. We seperate after UPSR and lost contact ever since. So girls, like I said, if u understand the reason u formed DARA, u can handle every problem that been thrown at u and I secretly hope that u do because I don't want u to make the same mistake that we did

Remember girls; 

"It takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it." ~Source Unknown~

Filem DARA

Idea asal cite nie mengisahkan kisah persahabatan 4 anak dara sunti menghadapi mistik asrama sekolah. Dari situ aku nak explore persahabatan mereka, bagaimana tertubuhnya nama DARA. Namun nak ingat balik persahabatan kitorang masa kecil dulu, tu yang susah.

Cite seram banyak sangat aku tengok, ada yang aku pernah rasa pengalamannya. Jadi nak buat cite hantu mmg mudah tapi aku still perlukan keadaan sekolah itu untuk membayangkannya.

Yang susah nak fikir adalah konflik. Cite hantu lebih pd kemunculan hantu dan kaitannya dengan jenayah atau ilmu hitam. Penunggu Istana pun, ia datang akibat mereka memanggilnya. Jadi, aku ingat nak buat yang hantu itu wujud di asrama kerana ingin melindungi sesuatu dan tidak mahu manusia mengambil sesuatu yang miliknya.

Climaks biar 4 gadis sunti tu bertemu dengan hantu itu dan mengetahui sebab hantu itu menakutkan murid murid dan dengan bantuan rakan rakannya mereka memindahkan sesuatu itu ke tempat lain

Ending, mereka bertemu dengan murid yang mukanya hampir serupa dengan hantu yang menjaga sesuatu itu

Itu baru draf cite. Kene fikir jugak banyak benda. Pening pening

DEMAM JB

Aduyai, aku dah kena demam JB sejak aku tengok Cite Never Say Never tapi syukurla demam tu x kuat sbb antibodi masih kuat lagi. Jadi hanya dengar lagu lagu jer, x seperti peminat fanatik yg lain.

Mula mula aku hanya layan Baby jer, itupun lepas tengok adik Dayana IK2 nyanyi. Kemudian, bile dh hampir hafal lagu tu, lepas tengok cite Never Say Never baru aku start minat yg lain cam Somebody To Love, One Less Lonely Girl, Never Say Never dan lagu yang betul2 buat aku sedih, That's Should Be Me.

Ntahla, lagu tu mengingatkan aku pada kisah cinta aku yang sering menemui kegagalan. Mungkin nasib bercinta aku ditakdirkan teruk bergini.

GELORA PERASAAN DI HATI

Aduyai, macam macam perasaan bergelora dalam hati.Marah, benci, bengang, panas dan sebagainya. Kali ni, aku dah tahu siapa sahabat aku yang sebenar, siapa berlakon sebagai kawan aku dan siapa musuh aku. Baru aku tahu nampak jer alim tapi lebih kurang je perangai. Aku ingat baik jugak dia tapi tak sangka dia ni jenis 'Kuman di hujung sana nampak, gajah di depan mata tak nampak'. Bengang betul. Patutlah kengkawan sekelas die x berape rapat.

Hampa sebab aku risau orang yang aku cintai nanti terjatuh ke tangan lain. Aku benar benar sayangkan dia tapi kalau tiba tiba dia berubah fikiran, berubah hati, alamat heart break lagi la. Dah terlalu kerap sangat aku kecewa.

Ntahlah, elok ke aku sambung per'sahabat'an aku dengan orang camtu atau elok aku belah jer, x payah layan orang camtu, buat sakit hati jer. Karang tak pasal pasal bergaduh teruk pulak.

Sebuah idea persahabatan

Melihat 4 dara sunti menubuhkan kumpulan persahabatan mengingatkan aku pada kisah 1994. Masa tu kami berlima mempunyai persahabatan yang kuat. Gaduh dalam sahabat tu biasalah tapi tidak sampai memutuskan persahabatan. Susah senang kami lalui bersama malah kami mengenali sesama kami bair dari segi luaran mahupun dalaman. Itu sebab bila ada yang dilanda masalah, senang kami tahu melalui gerak gerinya.

1994 meninggalkan kenangan suka duka terhadap aku. Tahun UPSR tapi aku still dengan awek aku, Najwa. Namun bergitu, studygroup masih ada, masih aku ikut. Seronok jugak masa tu; Firdaus, Redzuan, Nazri dan awek aku, Najwa dalam group study tu. Kami namakan group kami, 5 Sekawan

Kitorang pernah gaduh teruk masa kemasukan Yazid dan Salwa. Namun ada seorang cikgu, dia dengar kitorang bertengkar dan terus kami disuruh memasuki bilik darjah dan akhirnya diberi pengajaran serta dipaksa tulis dan hafal 50 peraturan dalam persahabatan. Skarang ntah buku tu kat mana. Aku pulak dapat ingat 10 dari 50 peraturan. Hehehehehehehe. Last last Salwa dan Yazid masuk tapi kami kekalkan nama 5 Sekawan

Persahabatan kitorang ni bermula masa tadika lagi dan tak pasti nnk kata berakhir ke tak sebab lepas UPSR, lepas habis darjah 6, kitorang cam terpisah dan terus tak berhubung sampai sekarang. Rindu betul aku kat diorang.

Kalau mereka baca blog ni, harap hubungi aku ye. Yang gadis gadis sunti tu, pelbagai halangan akan ditempuhi sepanjang persahabatan namun yang penting korang tabah dan kenal sahabat korang itu luar dalam. Yang penting terima kelebihan dan kelemahan sahabat korang seadaanya seperti mana sahabat korang terima kelebihan dan kelemahan korang seadaanya